We encourage you to let us correct this problem for you as soon as possible. After reading this information you will see how this problem can cause a low self-esteem and a low self-image, especially if this is allowed to continue without a correction. Before ordering our program we ask that you fill out the evaluation form.
With more than 30 years of family counseling and enuresis (bedwetting) correction experience, we have learned what causes bedwetting, and what is needed to correct this problem. These methods have been proven over the years to be the most successful used by anyone in this industry. Also, over the years many other companies have called us, asked for our information, have had our research information sent to them, and are now mentioning these methods and principles on their web sites. Using this information just to get your business does not make them professional or qualified.
We would like you to know where these proven methods and information have come from. Mainly from our research, our experience, and our expertise in this field.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------*The very first thing we would like you to know is this:
Bed Wetting Is The Result Of An Inherited Tendency To Be A Very Deep Sleeper.
Because of this, the sleep pattern needs to be changed to a more normal sleep pattern or cycle, before the bed wetting can end.
You will read more details about this subject below.
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*The second important fact is:
Many Bedwetters Also Experience Daytime Problems Such As Urgent Situations.
In talking with thousands of parents over the years, I have heard many say they thought their child was just not paying attention, or the child was too caught up with other things, or even too lazy. These are not the causes for daytime problems. The deep sleeper has a weak sphincter muscle, and weak muscle actually causes the inability to "hold it" once the urge appears. It can also cause frequent urination and possible bladder infections. Therefore, the muscle needs to be strengthened and sensitized
You will read more about this subject below.
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*The third important fact is:
Bladder Capacity Is Smaller Than Normal.
Much of the bladders normal growth takes place during the sleeping hours of a normal sleeper. During the night, when the bladder begins to send signals, the normal sleeper will begin to hold. And this holding will continue until the person has the urgent need to get up and use the toilet. But the child with the deep sleep disorder doesn't hold their fluid for a normal length of time, and the bladder does not have the normal opportunity to expand to its fullest capacity. Bladder capacity needs to be increased to equal age and body size.
To read more about this subject, continue reading.
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*Bedwetting Is The Result Of An Inherited Deep Sleep Disorder.
This Will Help Explain Why This Happens:
Children with bedwetting problems usually have very similar symptoms. It is very common to find someone in the family was either a bedwetter, or had sleep walking episodes, or had what we call "night terrors" when they were younger. These conditions are all related to the same sleep disorder.
When we sleep at night, it's normal to settle into a continuous four-stage sleep cycle which keeps us in a healthy balance during the night. Here is a graph that illustrates the pattern that is normal.
Rather than going through sleep cycles, the deep sleeper falls rapidly fall stage 4 of sleep, and stays there for long periods of time. This prohibits the healthy balance of normal sleep cycles that a person needs. When the bladder begins to send signals, the deep sleeper receives the signals, however, the deep sleeper cannot wake to consciousness. They will experience what we call a rapid REM rise. They come up rapidly to the REM stage of sleep, then fall back down to the deep sleep stage. This is where the bedwetting occurs. The REM stage is sleep is the dream stage of sleep. That explains why often the person will have a dream of urinating while this is going on.
Here is a sleep graph illustrating this type of deep sleep. Notice the deep sleeper tries to wake up, but cannot get to consciousness.
It is while the deep sleeper is in stage 4 sleep, the deepest level of sleep, that the bladder begins to fill, and eventually empties itself without the person even knowing that a wetting has occured.
Therefore, to be able to correct the bedwetting, it is necessary that we change the sleep pattern into a more normal pattern of sleeping.
You, like many others, are probably asking "How Do We Change The Sleep Pattern?"
We know that many families have tried a bedwetting alarm, and have not had much success because the deep sleep bedwetter would sleep right through the alarm.
At the same time others would find the alarm useful, but had no knowledge of what to do when it appeared the bedwetter was finally awake. Often a parent would enter the bedroom of the child in the night to find the deep sleeper setting up in the bed after they had already wet. They could carry on a conversation with the child, even take them to the restroom and have them go some more in the toilet, and in the morning the child would not remember any of that activity at all. Episodes like that only proves that the child was not awake, even though it looked and seemed as though they were.
We soon realize that bedwetters can't change their own sleep pattern when they're in this very deep sleep. And alarms, used by themselves, normally won't correct this deep sleep either.
Someone needs to help them out of stage 4 of sleep. We will need mom, dad, someone who can become the helper along with guidance and instruction from our office.
This is a very critical part of our correction program. Someone needs to intervene with the deep sleep while the bedwetter is in that state (stage 4). Because it is so important to fully wake the bedwetter, at this point, in order to change the sleep pattern, our company will teach you the various and necessay techniques and procedures to completely awaken the bedwetter from the deep sleep, to insure the child is fully awake, and teach you how to train the child to sleep more normal in order to properly correct the bedwetting. Also, sleeping more normal produces a more healthy sleep which will help the daytime activity and emotions to be more normal.
When the sleep pattern is successfully changed, and the balance restored, the bedwetting will end.
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A proper correction of the bedwetting problem is a great encouragement for the child for certain, but also for everyone in the family.
Daytime wetting
What Causes it?
It appears that many bedwetters wait until the last minute to go to the bathroom. Some will have daytime accidents or leak. It is also not uncommon for them to have to urinate frequently within a short period of time. We find that girls will contract bladder infections within the urinary tract because they often do not completely empty themselves during the night time while in bed, and that can leave a residual of urine that settles in the tract.
We know that the bedwetter's daytime problem is not because of being preoccupied or lazy. These episodes occur because the sphincter muscle is weak. Remember, the sphincter muscle is the muscle we hold back the urine with. It's function is to be able to hold the urine inside the bladder. It should also be able to let us know as the bladder fills and also detect when the bladder is totally empty. The deep sleep disorder causes the sphincter muscle to function improperly at night, and this can prevent it from working normally during the day.
Here Is How We Cure Daytime Problems?
We will show you a simple exercise program that needs to be performed on a consistent basis. This will not only strengthen the sphincter, but will sensitize the muscle to the degree that the bedwetter will be able to quickly sense the urge to urinate, hold it for a reasonable length of time, and be able to feel when the bladder is completely empty.
By using our program that includes the special instruction book, we will provide you with the necessary exercises and instructsions that will teach the bedwetter why these therapeutic techinques need to be done each day and each week, until the symptoms disappear. The exercises are easy enough that even a young child (4 years or older) can perform them regularly
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The issues caused by the bedwetting problem can cause a child to have a low self-esteem and a low self-worth. A proper correction of this problem will make a terrific difference in the child.
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Bladder capacity is smaller than normal
Here Is Why It Happens:
We know the bedwetters rarely hold their urine all night. Because of this, the inside of the bladder is not elasticizing or stretching as it should. This causes the capacity of the bladder to remain small. And so, the potential to expand is there but it just has not been realized because of the deep sleep. The deep sleeper just does not hold during the sleep like a normal sleeper would.
Actually the restricting of fluids can be counter productive to normal bladder capacity growth and elasticity. Bedwetters do not wet the bed because there is too much fluid in the body. If that were the case, we would all wet the bed. Deep sleepers wet the bed because they sleep so deeply that they cannot wake up. Besides, our bodies need fluids. Restricting is unhealthy.
How Do We Increase Capacity?
Our program with our special instruction book will show you how to increase current capacity of the bladder by doing special bladder holding exercises. We will teach you the method that will slowly and gradually increase bladder capacity until it is normal for the bedwetters age and body size. Increasing capacity is accomplished with a simple, daily bladder routine that takes only a few minutes, once each day.
As you can tell, our program is not just another bedwetting alarm or just another program. We have perfected this process. There may be others who have copied, or learned these techniques from us over the years, but we still are the experts, we still have done the research, and we do have the most experience in this field.
When using our program you may call the Center if and when you are experiencing any difficulty. We can help you through the difficult times. The only thing we can not help you with is what you do not tell us about. You are not going to run into a situation that we have not dealt with before
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